Below are a list of links I think my help you develop yourself and your relationships. This list is ever-updating and would be better if more people shared input :)
http://relationshiprealities.wordpress.com/
http://www.therapyideas.net/
http://www.takeflightcoaching.org/articles/PurposeStatement.pdf
http://www.mindtools.com/page6.html
http://www.womensmedia.com/coaching/258-six-principles-of-goal-setting.html
http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm
http://www.selfcreation.com/acceptance/index.htm
http://209.123.189.170/counseling_center/self_acceptance.htm
http://www.oprah.com/spirit/How-Self-Acceptance-Can-Crack-Open-Your-Life/2
http://ginigrey.com/LoveBug/increasing-self-acceptance/
http://relationshiprealities.wordpress.com/
http://www.therapyideas.net/
http://www.takeflightcoaching.org/articles/PurposeStatement.pdf
http://www.mindtools.com/page6.html
http://www.womensmedia.com/coaching/258-six-principles-of-goal-setting.html
http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm
http://www.selfcreation.com/acceptance/index.htm
http://209.123.189.170/counseling_center/self_acceptance.htm
http://www.oprah.com/spirit/How-Self-Acceptance-Can-Crack-Open-Your-Life/2
http://ginigrey.com/LoveBug/increasing-self-acceptance/